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Douglas Vermeeren – Are you a slave to a proactive person?

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Reactive people are always slaves to proactive people. Think about it. The proactive person is the one who starts a company and if you are reactive he is your boss. The Proactive person in a relationship knows what they want and moves towards it, while the reactive person is compliant. (And because of that often a toxic nag and complainer.) The proactive person is a leader while the reactive is the follower. And the list could go on.

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Everywhere in reality those who are proactive enlist the help of the reactive. Often the proactive will say and experiences situations where they are unemployable. They have either made too much money or have too much drive to fit in as an employee. No one can pay them what they believe they could make on their own. Once a proactive person has experienced what they can create on their own they never dare return to reactive situation where they allow another person to dictate the activities of their day.

Each person has areas in their life where they are more proactive and reactive. My challenge to you today is to consider what areas of your life you could be more proactive with. In each area you choose to become more proactive and self-reliant your freedom grows.

Douglas Vermeeren – Proactive versus average

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Most people in life are not proactive. Maybe they think its difficult or it takes too much effort. Instead they would rather go with the flow or receive what the world around them thinks they deserve. They don’t understand that by default they give up on many of their dreams and desires simply because they choose to settle. One truth that is self existent is that those who are reactive or complacent will always serve the needs of the proactive and decisive. When you choose to abstain from being active you will always serve those who are proactive.

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There are no passive bystanders in the game of life. You are either engaged creating the life you want or you are watching others live the life of their dreams. Often you are one of their workers helping make their dreams happen. Each night thousands of people watch others living their dreams on TV while if they were determined they could be creating realities for themselves.

So how can you get started? The beginning is simply to make a decision that you will get involved in your life. You will make decisions and strategically take control of what you want and what you don’t want. By doing so you will experience an immediate magic. The universe is a friendly place ready to help you accomplish whatever dreams and goals you decide to pursue. The Universe will send you people, opportunities and support to get whatever it is you pursue with passion and purpose. Passive dreamers need not apply.

My challenge to you is to take a careful look at your day. Are your activities in harmony with your higher purposes? Are you using your minutes to create a lifetime of fulfillment? How does it make you feel to pursue your goals and dreams? We all operate according to our feelings and if you want to feel better get started with what really inspires and excites you.  Be sure to report back, I love to hear about your adventures….
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Douglas Vermeeren – Are you Proactive?

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Are you Proactive? What difference does it make?

By Douglas Vermeeren

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Being proactive or taking responsibility for your actions and choices is the first step towards creating any success in real life. If we avoid responsibility or choose to be reactive to what’s going on around us we actually give away our power. As we give away our power we also lose our ability to create outcomes that are important to us.

When we live in a reactive mode we become paralyzed and our world shrinks. We give up the right make choices as we by default give this power to others.

You can recognize a reactive person by the behaviours and language. Their actions often appear as follows:

They are easily offended

They blame others

They are often highly emotional (Super Highs and Super Lows)

They get angry easily and often

They say hurtful things

They criticize and judge others

They complain

They wait for things to happen

Find themselves often engaged in drama

Change only when they must

Unwilling to learn or follow

They are often financially broke

Paralyzed when problems appear

Always late

Disorganized

Use contention and intimidation as a tool

Don’t own their mistakes

 

The language they use is often as follows:

I have to

They made me

I must

I can’t

I don’t have the time, monte, opportunity, friends, resources etc.

It happened because of X

Because of these approaches reactive people always find their world shrinking. A shrinking universe is connected to diminishing opportunity and scarcity. You can never have abundance on any level in a setting where scarcity is nurtured.

The good news is that people are neither 100% proactive or reactive. We are all somewhere along a continuum. You are reactive some of the time and proactive some of the time. My encouragement to you is to identify areas where you are reactive and seek for improvement. Even a small degree of improvement will begin to open up more opportunities for choice. More choices simply equals more happiness and success. You’ll also find that taking responsibility sooner and more fully decreases the amount of negative stress in your life. When we take responsibility even for the things we don’t like in our life we immediately gain the power to change those things. You can only change what you choose to own.

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http://www.DouglasVermeeren.com http://www.PersonalPowerMasteryEvent.com http://www.PersonalPowerMasterySchoolPrograms.com

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An Awesome life is living your life by decision. You are where you want to be, doing the things that excite you, inspire you and bring out the best in you and in those around you.