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Hesitation is wrecking your world
Personal Power Mastery moment by Douglas Vermeeren

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“Don’t just jump into something, take your time to think things through, it’s okay to take your time.” These are all saying that you’ve probably heard before. I have too. But there is one place I never heard them at all.

And that place was as I was conducting my first hand research with the more than 400 of the worlds top achievers. Instead the phrases I heard among the top achievers were things like, “Let’s get it done, how soon can we start? Is this something we can implement right away? who do we need to bring in to make that work?”

Top achievers understand there is danger run letting time slip away. They understand that every moment between the decision and the implementation is lost momentum, advantage and profits.

The reason they are able to make decisions quickly and get moving so fast on projects or ideas is that they have established what they are trying to do and what they really want ahead of time. They know their values and the outcomes they are trying to create and so when opportunities appear to advance their cause they can immediately say YES.

Average people on the other hand don’t really know what they want and they don’t recognize it when it appears. They have too think more carefully to sort through opportunities when they appear. As a result many of those opportunities disappear before they can get involved.

Holding back is also a symptom of scarcity thinking. Not only does it keep you out of powerful opportunities it also keeps you from experiencing abundance in others areas of your life.

Hesitation is the parent of procrastination. If you develop hesitation in your life it is only a matter of time until that instant hesitation develops into full-grown procrastination.

When you establish what you really want it is important to make your decisions quickly. And as we teach in personal Power Mastery decision does not exist unless there is an action attached to it. So any time you make a decision you must follow it immediately with an action.

Hesitation is also closely linked to regret. I was recently at a large family gathering all my aunts, uncles, cousins, distant cousins and so forth were there. I have a few relatives that are in the poverty pattern. Most of this can be traced back to hesitation, procrastination and fear. (by the way did we mention the root cause hesitation is fear? More on that another time.)

Any ways maybe your family is like mine. After all the hugs, kisses and hellos everyone starts talking about what is going on their life. Business often comes up. While everyone is sharing their successes I have a few relatives that you can count on to star sharing the “would-have, could-have, should-have stories.” These are the regrets that are expressed looking back at opportunities they should-have, would-have and could-have taken advantage of. (And I should again point out that this is not just my family – every family has them and it might even be you if you look carefully.) These would-have, could-have and should-have stories focus on opportunities that hesitation and procrastination and ultimately fear robbed this person of. Ultimately they long for a way to take the clock back and get another chance. Obviously that is not possible. And with this experience comes lots and lots of regret.
My challenge to you today is to become aware of what you really want in your life and then STOP HESITATING. When an opportunity appears to seize what you want take it. Don’t worry about not knowing enough, not having enough or being enough. Say yes, and then try and figure it out. You’ll find that more often than not the answers come quickly and easily. There is a Zen proverb that says “Leap and the net will appear!”

When in doubt LEAP!

About Douglas Vermeeren
What would you do with the secrets of the world’s top achievers? Would you level up your income? Your business? Your opportunities? Now you can find out because those secrets are now available to you.

Over the last two decades Douglas Vermeeren has conducted extensive first hand research into the lives of the worlds top achievers. He has the success strategies of top business leaders from Nike, Reebok, Fruit of the Loom, FedEx, KFC, United Airlines, Microsoft, Disney and others to share with you. ABC television and FOX Business refer to him as the modern Day Napoleon Hill.

In addition, he is the producer and director of 3 out of 10 of the top personal development movies ever made. He is the producer of The Opus (featuring Jack Canfield, Mark Victor Hansen, Joe Vitale, John Demartini, Marci Shimoff, Morris Goodman, Bob Doyle and others.) The Gratitude Experiment (Bob Proctor, Marie Diamond, John Demartini, John Gray) and The Treasure Map (John Demartini, Loral Langemeier, Raymond Aaron, Marshall Sylver, Randy Gage.)

He has authored 3 books in the Guerrilla marketing series and is the creator of Personal Power Mastery which has been consistently rated as one of the top events for personal change and development worldwide.

He is a regular featured expert on FOX, CNN, ABC, NBC, CTV, CBC, The Huffington Post, NY Daily News and others.

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