Douglas Vermeeren – Our best self gives us our best outcomes.
Often the decisions we make day to day come either from habit (the decisions that we always make without thinking) or our of crisis or necessity (urgent pressing matters that need our attention.) As a result the outcomes that we experiences and the consequences they bring pretty much keep us where we have always been or put us in a state of stress. Very seldom are accidental decisions likely to create powerful outcomes for us.
As decisions are the important transition moment of bring our thoughts into reality it is important that the important ones be made with care. We cannot randomly approach important issues and expect that they will take us to our best results.
Within each of us is a better self. We have caught glimpses of that person from time to time. We know he or she is there and quite frankly eager to get out. When we are our best self we feel great and inspired. We know that this best self has important contributions to make to our wellbeing and the world around us. However to have that best-self come forward requires effort. Our best self doesn’t automatically appear unless we proactively decide to allow them forward.
Most often we settle to have our average self solve problems quickly because we are Impatient. We allow our average self to maintain relationships because its quicker. We let our average self rush through our day because they are more or less efficient and its comfortable.
While this may work occasionally it rarely gives us the life we really want and deserve.
You will soon find that getting your best self to make decisions will make your life easier and more rewarding although it requires more effort at first.
The next time you are making an important decision ask yourself am I settling with the choice my average self is making or is my best self choosing the best path?
Warning: Mos tot the time the decisions your best self would make will take more time, more effort and more commitment. But as the old saying goes it’s better to do something right the first time than to have to repeat it.
Written by douglasvermeeren
July 28, 2016 at 11:30 pm
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