Douglas Vermeeren – Are you Proactive?
Are you Proactive? What difference does it make?
By Douglas Vermeeren
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Being proactive or taking responsibility for your actions and choices is the first step towards creating any success in real life. If we avoid responsibility or choose to be reactive to what’s going on around us we actually give away our power. As we give away our power we also lose our ability to create outcomes that are important to us.
When we live in a reactive mode we become paralyzed and our world shrinks. We give up the right make choices as we by default give this power to others.
You can recognize a reactive person by the behaviours and language. Their actions often appear as follows:
They are easily offended
They blame others
They are often highly emotional (Super Highs and Super Lows)
They get angry easily and often
They say hurtful things
They criticize and judge others
They wait for things to happen
Find themselves often engaged in drama
Change only when they must
Unwilling to learn or follow
They are often financially broke
Paralyzed when problems appear
Use contention and intimidation as a tool
Don’t own their mistakes
The language they use is often as follows:
I have to
They made me
I don’t have the time, monte, opportunity, friends, resources etc.
It happened because of X
Because of these approaches reactive people always find their world shrinking. A shrinking universe is connected to diminishing opportunity and scarcity. You can never have abundance on any level in a setting where scarcity is nurtured.
The good news is that people are neither 100% proactive or reactive. We are all somewhere along a continuum. You are reactive some of the time and proactive some of the time. My encouragement to you is to identify areas where you are reactive and seek for improvement. Even a small degree of improvement will begin to open up more opportunities for choice. More choices simply equals more happiness and success. You’ll also find that taking responsibility sooner and more fully decreases the amount of negative stress in your life. When we take responsibility even for the things we don’t like in our life we immediately gain the power to change those things. You can only change what you choose to own.
Douglas Vermeeren – Are you ready to level up? You’ve come to the right place. Douglas Vermeeren is considered one of the top leaders in personal development and achievement psychology. He is considered by many to be the modern day Napoleon Hill for his extensive research into the lives and psychology of more than 400 of the world’s top achievers. Douglas Vermeeren is the creator of The Personal Power Mastery program which helps you unlock your most powerful self and created positive changes in your life.
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An Awesome life is living your life by decision. You are where you want to be, doing the things that excite you, inspire you and bring out the best in you and in those around you.
Written by douglasvermeeren
July 15, 2016 at 12:31 am
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